We all crave for love. We desire to be loved by someone and have feelings about it.
In the same manner, we assume that every song is meant for us. Every quote says something about us. This happens only when we expect love from an external
To find love, we have to open ourselves up to exploring and embracing the possibilities that come with it.
In other words, we have to unhide ourselves, meaning opening ourselves to the possibility of being hurt.
The problem arises when we expect love from an external source; we give them the power to hurt us, creating the risk of being vulnerable.
However, finding love is very uncommon these days. In today’s world, people are more interested in getting physical or extracting something from each other. They want to connect with each other on a physical level. We are with each other to get something without knowing the presence of love. Or maybe we use the body of the partner to escape. And the other person also does the same.
It is an acting pleasure that we experience for a short span of time. It is the same momentary pleasure we experience when watching a movie or drinking alcohol.
Don’t we see ourselves as spectators during such pleasures?
We relate our pleasures to being incomplete. It’s our dependency on something that lets us feel complete. As a result, we understand that our dependency is love.
We must understand that, deep down, we lack something. We feel incomplete with ourselves, or maybe we hide from the idea of being loved by someone. Or maybe it’s the desire of an unlovable person who is looking for someone to fill the emptiness in himself or herself.
Remember, if we are finding love outside or someone for love, then we cannot find true love. Searching for love begins within. That’s why it is said that the foundation of finding love depends on one's self-love.
Otherwise, everyone will jump from one relationship to another, from one incomplete person to another. It might seem attractive from the outside, but it will be fake from within.
We must understand that only a complete person who loves themselves completely and truly will find another such complete person.
To sum it all up, when one does not have a desire to be loved, one naturally finds it. Instead of searching for love, one should focus on creating a life that naturally invites meaningful connections, including true love.
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